January 1, 2010
So--I don't believe in resolutions. Why? Because it is just another thing to make me feel bad about myself when I reflect a year later and see that I didn't accomplish what I set out to do.
Like flossing. This year I decided I was going to become a flosser. That lasted a good three months. I fell out of habit. So--reflecting on it, I realize my teeth are not as strong as they could be. Good job, Amy.
I think I gave up on resolutions several years ago. I had a talk with a bishop one day, and we were chatting about goals in life. We talked about how New Year's resolutions just never seemed to work out. But we talked about goals and how they do.
So--we talked about different kinds of goals. Long term goals and short term goals. I have both kinds of goals I work on. The short term are to give me something to accomplish for an immediate gratification--to keep me motivated. The long term are to help me to become something amazing.
I have a goal board in my room though that reminds me of these goals. They are divided into quadrants to help me to maintain balance in my life. I have quadrants of social, spiritual, physical, and educational. One thing I've learned though is none of these matter unless I am focused on one thing--and that is the Savior. When he is the center of your life--everything else is supposed to fall into place.
So--a goal this year is to work on my relationship with my Savior more. I know there is plenty of room for me to do that. And I think it will help my other goals--like get enough sleep, or to pay off my student loans, or to become a positive thinker, or to not be so perfect all the time.
One more reflective thought for tonight--I just finished reading a book of my dad's by George Durrant called, My Best Day So Far. In it he talks about how each day is our best day so far. I am going to try to live that philosophy this year...some positive thinking in action.
So to my friends out there--Happy New Year! Don't forget, as my mother would say, to clean yourself for the new year--by bathing and washing your hair. I love my crazy Thai traditions!
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